Early in my blogging and social media journey, I used my personal accounts to share my experiences as a sports mom. I'm so glad I did, because those raw emotions have become invaluable to me over the years. They've not only shown me how far my sports family has come, but they've also helped me guide my other children through their own sports journeys, teaching them the hard but valuable lessons of the sports world.
Years ago, I wrote something that holds even more significance for me today. Here it is:
"Anyone who knows my oldest son knows how insanely passionate he is about soccer. β½ Seriously, the kid would play soccer all day long if we let him. Who needs to eat and sleep anyway? π
The past few years have been tough for him in regards to soccer. It's been hard to see something he loves cause him some discontentment. As a mom, it's been tough to watch him face disappointments. But when I sit back and observe how he's handled these setbacks, I am in awe of the person he is becoming.
Once the dust (and tears) settle, I've witnessed something beautiful. Disappointments have proven to be valuable lessons, shaping him into a stronger person and player. I'm realizing that setbacks are crucial in teaching our kids that disappointments only make victories sweeter when they come.
As a mother, I would feel like I was failing my children if I didn't let them experience life's disappointments and heartaches. I watch in amazement as these challenges make my kids work harder and grow.
Life is hard and not always full of butterflies and rainbows. π¦π I'm grateful for the experiences that show my children that life is full of disappointments... BUT that isn't necessarily a bad thing. π©·"